12 Days of Legit Transformation – Day 10: How to know that you matter

Do you ever feel like you don’t matter?

Like all the hard work you put in, day in and day out, is really…for nothing but to put food on your table and a roof over your head?

Sometimes I feel like this.

When I started the The Me Time Movement, it wasn’t some glorious revelation.

Love has always been an obsession of mine – loving people by empowering them to be exactly who they are; non-judgment of physical appearance, race, ethnicity, religion; inspiring them to love deeply, first themselves and then the World.

This is all love to me, and it’s what makes up my Radiant Self Care practice.

Simply said, I love LOVE.

But love can be overrated. Over-used. Over-talked-about. Prostituted. Negated.
I told myself it wouldn’t be original to create a movement around love.
Who would care?

Thankfully, I got out of my brain and listened to my heart, after an intense meditation in the vortex capital of the U.S., Sedona.

While sitting with my eyes close, and hands on the most energetic vortex in Sedona, Cathedral Rock, I asked one question:

What is my purpose?

My friend snapped this picture of me as I was meditating at Cathedral Rock in Sedona

And holy smokes, it freaked me out that I got a VERY clear answer in return:

To love and be loved and show the world how to love.

That was it. And yet, THAT was it!

After that trip to Sedona I headed back home to Las Vegas on January 1, 2013 feeling explosively lit-up!

Voila, the phrase “Legit Love” came to me & The Me Time Movement was born.

I still have my moments of doubt. The difference now is that I recognize, just by inspiring one person to join the The Me Time Movement, love themselves more, love the World more…I’ve done my job.

Heck, sometimes that one person is myself. And in the end, that’s all the matters – making yourself happy.

Here’s today’s 12 Days of Legit Transformation quote & butterfly fact, a great reminder that like the butterfly, we are powerful beyond belief, influencing those we never imagined we could touch with our wondrous wings… 

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Let’s start a conversation!

Do you ever fear that you don’t matter?  That you’re not being seen or acknowledged for what you do in this world?

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To Your Radiance,

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