Why you don’t want to find and keep a man

One of the things that pisses me off whole-heartedly is when other dating/love coaches use the language: “Find and keep a man.”

I get it. We all want to find that love that makes our heart flip-flop and flutter.
And we all want that love to stick around.

But trust me. You do NOT want to find and keep a man!

There are so many things wrong with the phrase “Find and keep a man” that are damaging not only to our view of love in general, but to your ability actually do the very thing that you want – which is to come together with a loving committed partner who you can do life with and receive the love you deserve.

So…curious why wanting to “FIND and KEEP a man” is so damaging to you on this journey towards love?

Get ready baby, because I’m passionate about this one…

Click here to watch on YouTube

In this video, you’ll learn:

  • How attempting to “find” a man is actually narrowing your options of actually finding one
  • The small shift in perception that will open you up to receiving the love you deserve
  • The #1 thing that men are terrified of, and why attempting to “Find and keep a man” is actually pushing him away
  • The more empowered phrase that you can use instead, in order to effortlessly attract the right partner for you, and welcome in Big Meaningful Love!

Now it’s your turn…

What are your thoughts about the phrase “find and keep a man?”

This one stirred up a HOT discussion on Facebook, so I’m curious to hear what you have to say here on the blog 🙂 Comment below!…

To Your Radiance,

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