It’s not easy to trust love one more time.

Here’s how you can recover from heartbreak, get back in touch with yourself, and finally find a man who gets you


Hot right? Seriously…that’s me.

Skydiving adventure where we both fell from the sky and met on the ground in a deep embrace, kissing and saying “wow…let’s do that again!”

Naked photoshoots…my body. High heels. His strong arms holding me. Hotness. It was going to be his future book cover.

Me living in Vegas. Him in San Francisco. We met magically on New Year’s Eve. He went home and immediately bought 8 plane tickets over the course of the next 7 months to come see me. Before he even unpacked.

A dozen red roses. A bottle of my favorite wine. “Let’s go out on the patio,” he said. Down on one knee. A ring of my dreams.

…yes, I’ve experienced the beauty of Big Meaningful Love.


But it hasn’t always been this way…

It’s 2009, and I’m in my sweats in my parent’s home during Christmas. I’m laying in my bed crying while

Yes, this was really me back then!

Yes, this was really me back then!

my entire family is in the living room having a jolly ole time. I reread the message again. Nope, there it is in black and white. He’s not coming. My boyfriend of almost three years has decided that he isn’t coming to spend Christmas with me and my family. I curl up in a ball and analyze the details of our relationship.

What went wrong? What did I do? Why don’t I matter enough to him?

You know, externally everything between us looked great. He was handsome, had a successful career as a doctor, and we rarely ever fought. So what happened?

If you’re here reading this, it’s likely you’ve been in a similar place. Maybe you’re single and recovering from a recent heartbreak, have been in a mediocre relationship that looks good from the outside but doesn’t feel right, or you can’t understand why finding Mr. Right is so goddamned hard. (Plus, you might not want to admit you’re lonely.)


Here’s the truth.

As women, we often get in our own way, blocking the possibility of attracting deep, meaningful relationships into our lives.

We overanalyze what to say because we want to say the “right” things that will keep men interested. We convince ourselves that we need to test them so we can be sure that they still like us (or like us more than someone else). We bring old baggage into new relationships.

It’s a cycle that I know I’ve been through, and I’ve watched others go through as well. But if you want to attract big, meaningful love into your life, you must get out of your own way, break the comfortable habits, and try something different.

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It’s time to stop…

  • Feeling lonely
  • Attracting men who just want a one-night stand or are scared of commitment
  • Making the same, tired mistakes that block most women from ever feeling satisfied in a relationship
  • Comparing all of the guys you date to your ex
  • Settling in mediocre relationships because you don’t think you’ll find anyone better
  • Feeling unattractive and not sexy enough to receive the love and partnership you deserve

And start…

  • Connecting with a guy who accepts you for you
  • Attracting men who are ready to build a life with you
  • Opening yourself up to a love that fulfills your deepest desires
  • Letting go of baggage and past heartbreak
  • Asking for exactly what you want from men
  • Feeling sexy, playful, and fierce

In this program, you’ll be able to make small shifts that will lead to big insights for how to attract a man who supports your ambitions and fulfills your deepest desires.

Unfortunately, unless you do something about your loneliness it’s probably not going to go away by itself.

That’s where the From Lonely to Love Homestudy Program comes in.

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Yes, this is me NOW!

I’m Jess Tomlinson, and I created From Lonely to Love because I know you are a powerful, loving woman with a big heart and a desire to be wrapped in the arms of a man who “gets’ you…and furthermore, you DESERVE exactly this!

I don’t want you to have to sacrifice your dreams of having a family or feel unattractive because you’re having trouble attracting the type of man you deserve.

I don’t want you to have to suffer heartbreak, depression or loneliness (like I did for so long) and miss out on a phenomenal relationship that you deserve…

In this program, you’ll learn from my heart-wrenching lessons and my glorious victories. You’ll receive loving guidance, tips, and strategies that work.


Other women who have worked with me have said:


I feel free. I feel like my heart has a clean slate, and that’s huge. It feels like 44 years of hurt is gone. And it’s just something that you can’t even think is possible — for me to let go of that much weight that I didn’t even know I had is beautiful.



What you’ll learn in the From Lonely to Love Homestudy Program…

  • Let go of previous heartbreak so you stop comparing new guys to your ex and effortlessly attract the right man
  • Make Classy Requests to get your desires fulfilled (without being called a b*-tch or high-maintenance)
  • Clarity on how you want to FEEL in love and relationship- visualization tracks to begin attracting even before you leave the house so that the attraction process is easy
  • Understand masculine and feminine dynamics so that he steps up & you get treated like a queen
  • Activate ALL your feminine archetypes – the Playful Child, Radiant Rebel & Sexy Feminine – so that they work together and help (versus hurt) you attract a man
  • 7 Simple Sexy Feminine Habits that will make you an attraction magnet (from the inside out!)


The From Lonely to Love home study program offers you a safe place to identify the mistakes you’ve been making in relationships, envision your ideal relationship, and effortlessly attract a man as a result of that inner work.

Take the Program Now

As soon as you complete the purchase, you’ll be sent a receipt. Then, shortly after, you’ll receive the first email lesson. If you run into any technical issues, email me at


8 content packed video & audio modules to listen to at your leisure...

Module 1: Discover your dominant Feminine Power Archetype so you know how to dress, speak & act in alignment with your greatest gifts, making attraction effortless and fun.

Module 2: Learn how to activate ALL of the Feminine Power Archetypes - The Radiant Rebel, Sexy Feminine & Playful Child - so that they work together to help you versus hurt you in attracting a man without letting one overpower the other.

Module 3: Using your Radiant Rebel to release hidden emotions and baggage from previous relationships that are holding you back from receiving love in your life.

Module 4: Forgiveness Ritual ~ Heal your heart, forgive yourself and your exes so that you can let go of past pain and stop comparing new partners to previous lovers.

Module 5: Claim your vision of love by diving into your deepest desires for a relationship and your future.

Module 6: Classy Request templates so that you don't have to worry about what to say to a man in order to have meaningful conversation, feel confident in your interaction and inspire him to ask YOU out.

Module 7: Seven Simple Sexy Feminine Tips to empower you to fall deeply in love with yourself, uplevel your confidence and become an Attraction Magnet without ever leaving the house!

Module 8: Understanding masculine and feminine dynamics. What makes men tick? What makes them run for the hills? How do some women have men who would do anything for them? How can we come together as partners versus opposites? This module answer it all.


Peace of Mind Guarantee

I know it can feel risky to put your heart on the line like this and say yes to your desires, so in order to make this an easy YES for you, I want to do something special. If after going through the first module -- in the first seven days of the program -- you know it’s not the right place for you to be, I’ll give you your money back without any questions asked. What’s more, you’ll get to keep all of the materials from that first module. Why am I doing this? Because I absolutely believe in this program, and above all, I absolutely believe in your ability to find deep, meaningful love. Still not sure? Read the FAQ below, or click here to get a sample of the course in less than five minutes.

Other women who have worked with me have said...

Brittany Williams

“Even in a short period of time, with all the junk I was trying to process, this experience brought me clarity, peace and comfort…”

Brittany Williams Former Miss United States & Creator of B.FabYOUlous



I honestly didn’t know what I wanted to gain from the experience, but something told me to just do it. I knew that if it was something that Jess was doing, nothing but great things would come from it. The timing was perfect, as I was in the process of some major transitions in my life. However, with so much happening, I really had no idea what to tackle first. Even in a short period of time, with all the junk I was trying to process, this experience brought me clarity, peace and comfort in knowing that I had to wrap up in my cocoon, let it happen, and bust out and fly! While I thought I had already broken out of my cocoon and become a beautiful butterfly in the past, I have done it again. This time, Jess helped me to become the big, bright, blingy, beautiful butterfly that I was trying to be all along.

Kayla McLeod

“I’ve been single for 3 years…this one simple change in perspective was the catalyst that helped me open up and discover a deeper connection with a friend [man] I already love!”

Kayla McLeod

"I decided to focus on one piece of information you shared and see what happens….we [me and a guy I’d been noticing on Facebook] met up and had an OUTSTANDING time talking, dancing, sharing and hugging. That night he insisted that we schedule another date. This was 2 weeks ago and since then we've gone on 6 Play Dates! He calls and texts me everyday, communicates so openly and clearly, and showers me with the Love Languages that I speak best! And on Saturday I worked a double and, halfway through my shifts, he brought me a homemade dinner and massaged my feet! Opening up to so much LOVE is quite the experience!! I've been single for 3 years. During that time I haven't been on any "dates", nor have I had interest in the types of men I was attracting. This one simple change in perspective was the catalyst that helped me open up and discover a deeper connection with a friend I already love. I don't know what the future holds for this new relationship, however I feel confident in the reminder that it IS possible to achieve." 


How is the course delivered?

This home study course will be delivered to you via email, over the course of 4 weeks, consisting of audio and videos that can be digested and learned at your own pace.  You will receive 6 modules.

How do I know this course is for me?

If you are a single, ambitious women who is frustrated with love but unwilling to give up on love, this course is for you. I specialize in helping women who are heartbroken and have a hard time being vulnerable, but they are ready to learn tools and techniques to open themselves up and receive the Big, Meaningful Love they deserve. If you'd like to take a tour of the course, click here to download the module for the first week.

Will the program work for me?

This road isn’t easy. But the greatest act of love, when you are desiring to attract love, is to take a stand for yourself and receive support. Just like any other kind of growth, this program won’t work for you unless you commit to it. So while I can’t give you a straight answer, what I can do is direct you to the many people who have worked with me and left the experience with more love in their lives. You can read some of their stories here.

How soon after the course can I expect to find a man?

While I wish I could guarantee love right out of the gate for everyone, each woman has her own personal journey to walk. That means that whatever you learn in our time together might reap rewards as soon as later this evening or as far as a year from now -- usually, depending on your definition of “rewards” -- it’s both! Instead of making it about “finding and keeping” a man, make it about your own growth, healing, and feminine power. My goal is to get you to a place where you are full of love - with or without a partner - while still taking steps forward to receive the romantic partnership you deserve.

Do you give tips for online dating?

Nope, unlike most relationship coaches, I don’t push my clients into online dating, but instead, empower women to do things “the old fashioned way” – through compassionate communication and vulnerability. These are the skills that will prepare you for a meaningful relationship. However, many of my teachings and principles on love and relationships can be applied to online dating, if that feels right to you.

Will I get any 1-on-1 coaching with you?

The course is 100% digital, which means there aren’t any opportunities for 1-1 coaching. If you are interested in working with me personally, book a spot this week for one of my complimentary 45-minute Radiant Love Activation calls and we can explore the possibility of working together if it’s a good fit.

This program is out of my budget right now, do you offer any discounts?

The $497 price point is my answer to making programs like these more affordable as some of my colleagues charge as much as $2,000. This might sound like a big investment, but as you’re probably feeling right now, there’s a HUGE cost to feeling lonely with no love in your life. The emotional cost of feeling unlovable, unworthy, unattractive, undesirable are huge…not to mention the cost of depression and the toll that takes physically on the body including weight gain, stress, anxiety…those doctors bills, with just one visit can quickly add up to $2,000, $5,000…or even $10,000. Or sometimes worse, the cost of leaving this Earth without experiencing the deep, supportive soul-expanding love we all deserve - or sometimes, without the dream fulfilled of having a husband and children to share your life and dreams with. The question to ask yourself is: How much longer are you willing to feel lonely and be without love?

So really, $2,000 is more than worth the investment because I don’t know any area of your life besides love that has the potential to create happiness, joy, pleasure, connection & open you up to endless life possibilities. And this course is only $497. Will you invest in your future and the love you deserve? The choice is yours.

Enroll Now

As soon as you complete the purchase, you’ll be sent a receipt. Then, shortly after, you’ll receive the first email lesson. If you run into any technical issues, email me at