An online program to recover from heartbreak,
get back in touch with yourself,
and finally find a man who gets you.

Imagine this...

Those old relationship patterns, anger at your ex and baggage from previous heartbreak are gone for good.

There's a solid trust that you have for yourself and you know that you can make the right decisions in love...you know how to trust men.

Meeting your new man feels easy, almost like magic and you can't believe when he makes the effort to call and ask you out.

You feel in touch with your deepest desires in love and relationship. And you know you are worth it. No question. 

You feel yourself around him - safe to express all parts of who you are - your playful, fierce & sexy sides...there's no holding back as you are accepted for exactly who you are!

He takes your hand, looks into your eyes and asks how he can support you.

He plans a beautiful third date, finally you can relax and he takes action...in fact, he is more than happy to do so.

You burst into tears after a stressful day and he knows exactly how to handle your emotions by embracing you in a warm hug...you are never "too much."

You communicate your needs without feeling "needy" and he is more than happy to fulfill your deepest desires.

You feel like a team, a solid partnership...times aren't always easy but you deeply trust him and know he will be by your side no matter what.

A dozen red roses. A bottle of your favorite wine. “Let’s go out on the patio,” he says. Down on one knee. A ring of your dreams. You are able to make a clear decision - not from a place of living the "fairy tale," but from a place of worthiness...you know exactly what is right for YOU.

Can you believe this is actually my life?! And it can be yours too.

Hey there beautiful! I’m Jess Tomlinson, and I created From Lonely to Love in 30 Days because I know you are a powerful, loving woman with a big heart and a desire to be wrapped in the arms of a man who 'gets’ you…and furthermore, you DESERVE exactly this!

I don’t want you to have to sacrifice your dreams of having a family or feel unattractive because you’re having trouble attracting the type of man you deserve.

Don't believe me? Take it from Kayla...

Opening up to so much LOVE is quite the experience!!

I decided to focus on one piece of information you shared and see what happens….we [me and a guy I’d been noticing on Facebook] met up and had an OUTSTANDING time talking, dancing, sharing and hugging. That night he insisted that we schedule another date. This was 2 weeks ago and since then we've gone on 6 Play Dates! He calls and texts me everyday, communicates so openly and clearly, and showers me with the Love Languages that I speak best! And on Saturday I worked a double and, halfway through my shifts, he brought me a homemade dinner and massaged my feet! Opening up to so much LOVE is quite the experience!! I was single for 3 years. During that time I haven't been on any "dates", nor have I had interest in the types of men I was attracting. This one simple change in perspective was the catalyst that helped me open up and discover a deeper connection with a friend I already love. I don't know what the future holds for this new relationship, however I feel confident in the reminder that it IS possible to achieve.

~ Kayla

But it wasn't always like this for me. Maybe you can relate?

It’s 2009, and I’m in my sweats in my parent’s home during Christmas. I’m laying in my bed crying.

What went wrong? What did I do? Why don’t I matter enough to him?

My entire family is in the living room having a jolly ole time. I reread the message again. Nope, there it is in black and white:

He’s not coming.

My boyfriend of almost three years has decided that he isn’t coming to spend Christmas with me and my family. I curl up in a ball and analyze the details of our relationship.

You know, externally everything between us looked great. He was handsome, had a successful career as a doctor, and we rarely ever fought.

So what happened?

> My sadness became shame. I let my family down.

> My heart became stone cold. I will never love again.

> My body became numb. I feel into a deep depression for months.

> It was terrifying. And lonely. 

If you’re here reading this, it’s likely you’ve been in a similar place.

Maybe you’re single and recovering from a recent heartbreak, have been in a mediocre relationship that looks good from the outside but doesn’t feel right, or you can’t understand why finding Mr. Right is so goddamned hard. (Plus, you might not want to admit you’re lonely.)

I'm here to tell you that you're not alone. And you will get through this to receive the Big Meaningful Love you deserve! I'm going to show you how I did it. 

I'm going to show you exactly how I went from Lonely to Love in just 30 days...

This experience brought me clarity, peace and comfort

I honestly didn’t know what I wanted to gain from the experience, but something told me to just do it. I knew that if it was something that Jess was doing, nothing but great things would come from it. The timing was perfect, as I was in the process of some major transitions in my life. However, with so much happening, I really had no idea what to tackle first. Even in a short period of time, with all the junk I was trying to process, this experience brought me clarity, peace and comfort in knowing that I had to wrap up in my cocoon, let it happen, and bust out and fly! While I thought I had already broken out of my cocoon and become a beautiful butterfly in the past, I have done it again. This time, Jess helped me to become the big, bright, blingy, beautiful butterfly that I was trying to be all along.

~ Brittany Williams, Former Miss United States & Creator of B.FabYOUlous

Let's do this! Sign me up...

Here's the truth...

As women, we often get in our own way, blocking the possibility of attracting deep, meaningful relationships into our lives.

We overanalyze what to say because we want to say the “right” things that will keep men interested.

We treat men as boys and expect them to treat us like Queens. 

We convince ourselves that we need to test them so we can be sure that they still like us (or like us more than someone else).

We bring old baggage into new relationships.

And worst of all...we sacrifice who we really are instead of becoming the best version of who we want to be.

It’s a cycle that I know I’ve been through, and I’ve watched others go through as well.

But if you want to attract big, meaningful love into your life, you must get out of your own way, break the comfortable habits, and try something different.

It's time to take back your power and create your own destiny for the love you want in your life!

It's time to stop...

  • Feeling lonely
  • Attracting men who just want a one-night stand or are scared of commitment
  • Making the same, tired mistakes that block most women from ever feeling satisfied in a relationship
  • Comparing all of the guys you date to your ex
  • Holding on to anger and pain from previous relationships
  • Settling in mediocre relationships because you don’t think you’ll find anyone better
  • Feeling unattractive and not sexy enough to receive the love and partnership you deserve

And start...

  • Connecting with men who accept you for you
  • Attracting men who are ready to build a life with you
  • Opening yourself up to a love that fulfills your deepest desires
  • Letting go of baggage and past heartbreak
  • Asking for exactly what you want from men
  • Feeling sexy, playful, and fierce

Unfortunately, unless you do something about
your loneliness, it's probably not
going to go away by itself.

That's where the From Lonely to Love Homestudy Program comes in!

I don’t want you to have to suffer heartbreak, depression or loneliness (like I did for so long) and miss out on a phenomenal relationship that you deserve…

In this program, you’ll learn from my heart-wrenching lessons and my glorious victories. You’ll receive loving guidance, tips, and strategies that work.

Lessons such as how I've managed to heal my relationships with my exes, so much so that they were the first men to call me after my best friend died, and listen as I cried.

Lessons such as how after a horrendous breakup, I took specific actions in my own life that left my ex seeing how silly he was to end our relationship and coming back around to propose to me with a huge diamond ring. And how, even though it was a glorious gesture, I trusted myself 100% and knew my own value...so I said "no," avoiding the pitfalls of a potentially toxic marriage.

And finally, lessons such as how my relationships keep getting more and more delicious - and I feel more and more like a Queen - without barely doing anything but a few key things =) In fact, one man just invited me to a wedding in Florida for our 3rd date! And he paid for my first class round trip ticket, as well as paying for my friends' hotel room back home, because I had promised them they would have a place to stay with me when they were in town for an event.

I have over 15 years of experience studying relationship communication, masculine/feminine dynamics, sex and healing techniques and have studied with some of the best transformational teachers and coaches on the planet. 

I have even been interviewed on live TV and NPR, as well as spoke on several stages, including TEDxWomen for my expert relationship advice.

It would be an honor to share my wisdom with you so you can go From Lonely to Love!

So...whaddya think? Ready to stop being lonely?

Yes, Jess! I want love in 30 days!

It feels like 44 years of hurt is gone.

I feel free. I feel like my heart has a clean slate, and that’s huge. It feels like 44 years of hurt is gone. And it’s just something that you can’t even think is possible — for me to let go of that much weight that I didn’t even know I had is beautiful.

~ Angie

Here's the powerful goodies in this 4 week,
self-paced program...

Let Go of Previous Heartbreak: How to stop comparing new guys to your ex, let go of the pain in your heart and finally move on so you can attract the right guy.

Make Classy Requests: How to ask men for what you really want, so you get your desires fulfilled, they understand clearly and take action to ask YOU out. (without being called a b*tch or high-maintenance)

Create Your Vision of Love: Understand exactly how you want to feel and the signs to look for when meeting men, in order to effortlessly attract a man who is right for you and avoid the wrong men (with crystal clear clarity).

End Man Confusion: Finally understand what men want, how passionate chemistry works & the dance of partnership so that you feel comfortable trusting men and love.

Become an Attraction Magnet: Feel powerful and confident so you no longer sacrifice who you really are and men are instantly drawn to your playful, fierce & sexy sides, using my transformational Feminine Archetype Activation!

7 Simple Sexy Feminine Habits: Get in touch with the art of feminine surrender, so that you can relax, trust and receive love and support from a man without feeling the need to control, and he steps up and asks YOU out!

Juicy lessons, right?
You can have them in your inbox soon...

The From Lonely to Love home study program offers you a safe place
to identify the mistakes you’ve been making in relationships,
let go of any baggage holding you back from love, envision your ideal relationship,
and learn the tools necessary to effortlessly attract a man who is right for YOU.

Take the program now

As soon as you complete the purchase, you’ll be sent a receipt. Then, shortly after, you’ll receive the first email lesson. If you run into any technical issues, email me at jessica@jessicatomlinson.com.

8 Love-Infused Audio & Video Modules Designed to Take You From Lonely to Love:

~ Week 1 ~


Learn your unique Attraction Archetype so you can learn how to dress, speak & act in alignment with your greatest natural feminine gifts, making attraction effortless and fun.



The Radiant Rebel, Sexy Feminine & Playful Child Archetypes are all important to attracting the right person for you. Learn how each part of you can work together to help you versus hurt you in attracting a man without letting one overpower the other.


~ Week 2 ~


Learn how your Radiant Rebel Archetype can help release anger and pain from past relationships and exes that's sabotaging new relationships & clogging up your ability to receive big love now.



Experience this powerful ritual that allowed me to instantly heal a past relationship, let it go & call in new love within just a few minutes! This ritual will allow you to heal your heart, forgive yourself and your exes so that you can let go of past pain and stop comparing new partners to previous lovers.


~ Week 3 ~


Claim your vision of love by diving into your deepest desires for a relationship and your future. Uncover what really matters to you in love and discover the worthiness for you receive it.



Learn from my easy templates for Classy Requests so that you don't have to worry about what to say to a man in order to have meaningful conversation, feel confident in your interaction and inspire him to ask YOU out.


~ Week 4 ~


Learn these fun and easy nourishing ways that are the "secret sauce" to keeping the right, high-quality men coming back for more! These habits will empower you to fall deeply in love with yourself, uplevel your confidence and become an Attraction Magnet without ever leaving the house!



What makes men tick? What makes them run for the hills? How do some women have men who would do anything for them? How can we come together as partners versus opposites? This module answers it all.

Peace of Mind Guarantee

I know it can feel risky to put your heart on the line like this and say yes to your desires, so in order to make this an easy YES for you, I want to do something special. If after going through the first module -- in the first seven days of the program -- you know it’s not the right place for you to be, I’ll give you your money back without any questions asked. What’s more, you’ll get to keep all of the materials from that first module. Why am I doing this? Because I absolutely believe in this program, and above all, I absolutely believe in your ability to find deep, meaningful love. Still not sure? Read the FAQ below.

Still not sure? These ladies were just like you...

Inspiring, right?! You can be just like these women...
love is possible for you too!

(That's only $16 per day for 4 weeks of training!)

Let's go! Pay in full

Two monthly payments of $277

Yes! 2 easy payments

As soon as you complete the purchase, you’ll be sent a receipt. Then, shortly after, you’ll receive the first email lesson.
If you run into any technical issues, email me at jessica@jessicatomlinson.com.

Your questions, answered!...

How is the course delivered?

This home study course will be delivered to you via email, over the course of 4 weeks, consisting of audio and videos that can be digested and learned at your own pace.  You will receive 8 modules. You will have access to this course forever.

How do I know this course is for me?

If you are a single, ambitious woman who is frustrated with love but unwilling to give up on love, this course is for you. I specialize in helping women who are heartbroken and have a hard time being vulnerable, but they are ready to learn tools and techniques to open themselves up and receive the Big, Meaningful Love they deserve. 

Will the program work for me?

This road isn’t easy. But the greatest act of love, when you are desiring to attract love, is to take a stand for yourself and receive support. Just like any other kind of growth, this program won’t work for you unless you commit to it. So while I can’t give you a straight answer, what I can do is direct you to the many people who have worked with me and left the experience with more love in their lives. Some of these women's inspiring stories are on this page. Take some time to read them and learn what's possible for you too.

How soon after the course can I expect to find a man?

While I wish I could guarantee love right out of the gate for everyone, each woman has her own personal journey to walk. That means that whatever you learn in our time together might reap rewards as soon as later this evening or as far as a year from now -- usually, depending on your definition of “rewards” -- it’s both! Instead of making it about “finding and keeping” a man, make it about your own growth, healing, and feminine power. My goal is to get you to a place where you are full of love - with or without a partner - while still taking steps forward to receive the romantic partnership you deserve.

Do you give tips for online dating?

Nope, unlike most relationship coaches, I don’t push my clients into online dating, but instead, empower women to do things “the old fashioned way” – through compassionate communication and vulnerability. These are the skills that will prepare you for a meaningful relationship. However, many of my teachings and principles on love and relationships can be applied to online dating, if that feels right to you.

Will I get any 1-on-1 coaching with you?

The course is 100% digital, which means there aren’t any opportunities for 1-on-1 private coaching. If you are interested in working with me personally, this place is a great starting point, then we can explore the possibility of working privately together if it’s a good fit.

This program is out of my budget right now, do you offer any discounts?

If you need a bit more time to invest, I offer 2 monthly payments of $277 (about $50 more than if you pay in full). The $497 pay-in-full price point is my answer to making programs like these more affordable as some of my colleagues charge as much as $2,000. This might sound like a big investment, but as you’re probably feeling right now, there’s a HUGE cost to feeling lonely with no love in your life. The emotional cost of feeling unlovable, unworthy, unattractive, undesirable are huge…not to mention the cost of depression and the toll that takes physically on the body including weight gain, stress, anxiety…those doctors bills, with just one visit can quickly add up to $2,000, $5,000…or even $10,000. Or sometimes worse, the cost of leaving this Earth without experiencing the deep, supportive soul-expanding love we all deserve - or sometimes, without the dream fulfilled of having a husband and children to share your life and dreams with. The question to ask yourself is: How much longer are you willing to feel lonely and be without love?

So really, $2,000 is more than worth the investment because I don’t know any area of your life besides love that has the potential to create happiness, joy, pleasure, connection & open you up to endless life possibilities. And this course is only $497 ($16 per day for the 4 week course). Will you invest in your future and the love you deserve? The choice is yours.

I can't wait to support you in receiving
the love you deserve! XO ~ Jess

Enroll now!